Saturday 26 December 2009

How to win love back and have your ex fall in love with you all over again

It is clearly obvious that you cannot make someone fall in love with you; however winning back a former love is a challenge in its own league. There will always be reasons why a relationship had come to an end and if you are able to identify the reasons as to why this happened then you will likely increase the chances of winning love back and having your ex fall in love with you all over again.

If infidelity was a reason why your relationship ended then you would have to move slowly, give the person in question space and time to heal and learn to trust again. Moreover you have to be prepared to prove that you are worth trusting once again.

The first step to winning love back is to ensure that you are entirely sure that you do want your ex back. You should ask yourself why it failed in the first place, why you went astray and most importantly if you are ready to commit yourself to the relationship to ensure that it works.

If you are sure that you want to be with your ex, the next step is to admit that you wronged, go further to apologise for your actions and be sincere about it. This will not necessarily get your ex back but it will certainly help build confidence in you.

You must then allow your ex time to come to terms with what happened. Ensure that you do not move too quickly or press them to deal swiftly with the situation at hand. Do not fail to recognise that this is a fragile stage of winning your love back and thus have to show that you can be trusted.

There are other reasons why a relationship could come to an end, for example lack of affection. Many couples love to hear to other say “I love you” and this may die out as the relationship matures. This is also the same for hugging, kissing etc, if you slow this down you will definitely have the other party questioning if you do really love and care for them still. You must be careful to get the balance right, ensure that you do not smother them either as it may push them away.

You may find that your ex may still be into you; in fact they may still be in love with you but the last thing you’d want to do would be to suffocate them, texting and calling all the time asking why you broke up. The best approach would be to give your ex time and space and let them realise that they still do love you.

If you lost your ex due to excessive jealousy or controlling of one partner, you will have to learn to identify these problems. The best way to overcome these issues is to re-learn to trust each other and thus have a fighting chance of winning back your ex

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