Avoiding A Love Break Up

If you have ever had a love break up you know how painful it can be and that’s one of the things no one can ever get used to. It does not matter if is the second time round it can be still painful as the first one.

What is it to look for and how can you Avoid A Love Break Up?

Is physical contact getting less and less? Any kind of physical contact...You may have been used to holding hands with your partner, them putting their arm over your should in public. All of a sudden they stop touching you outside the bedroom and you have known them to be affectionate before, that shouts love break up.

If your partner is starting to make things without including you in the decision making or has to wait until you ask them and they make up a story instead of the truth then there is a problem. One good sign that shows you are heading for love break up is when they start an argument out of nothing, so they can go out without telling or inviting you.

If you used to go for a night out together, it is easy to notice this kind of behaviour and it will get worse. Sometimes you may go out together but somehow they will start the argument and leave and go somewhere else. Hey what going on...?

The best way to handle this is instead of asking questions. Try and make some improvements on your side. Be the person they first fell in love with. Questions will just bring some more arguments and no results. Just be nice and fun all the time if you want to Avoid Love Break Up.

Even though you might be thinking you are the victim, instead take them as the victim. Make their life a lot easier around you by not demanding any answers. Be independent but loving.

I once heard a friend say something like to avoid a break up, one of the tricks is to collect some cigarettes ends and put them in the ash tray. Make it look like you had a smocking guest and do that every time he goes for a night out without you. She said you have to use a different kind of cigs from the ones you smoke, if you smoke.

I don’t know if this will work, but we are all different and different things works for different people.